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Oh and I have something else to add. I had someone in my life that I had to stop contact with. She was just as Cocoa described. Well in my experience people like this do not have the "perfect life" they display. It is really hard to be freinds with someone like this because most freinds discuss the bad and the good. With my freind I stopped mentioning arguements with my husband, problems with my mom, or anything else not positive to share. She had the perfect everthing and bragged so much about her happy perfect life, that I finally saw right through it. She wasn't happy at all, she was the most jealous person I have ever met. Selfish to the core. I realized that the life I had was the one she wanted. Probly because it was real with good and bad. Anyways I feel that people like this are very unhealthy to deal with. My freind finally came out of the closet and face all of the things in her life that were less then perfect. We have renewed our freindship and I actually enjoy her company now. We did have alot to discuss before we could get to a good place. I believe people can change but untell then it is best to find people who are genuine about who they are, sorry didn't mean to go on and on, andi
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