You guys are great! I did find a Mothers & More in our area.... they are national, does anyone know anything about them? Their next meeting is the third week of September. I will look into an adoption support group. For some reason, I didn't even think of that. Duh!!
I do think of it as a journey. And I remember how much I loved being a kid. I want Hanna to have that. I want to enjoy every minute of her being her and not force her to grow up to soon. She just amazes me each and every day.....

I can't believe she has gone from my 5lb preemie to over 9 lbs in 2 months!!! Wow!!!
As for the other couple. My dh and the husband are good friends and have been for years. I don't get along too well with his wife... never have. It started with her complaining to me (we had just had our first failed adoption) after she had only been married for a month and a half that she wasn't pregnant yet and how it wasn't fair. And of course she already was pregnant then, just didn't know. I think the fact that she is only 22 doesn't help much. He is my dh's age, turning 30 this year....Ah well, if it doesn't get better soon, I will probably start avoiding them more than I already do, lol.