[mikki86]

When you originally created your open adoption agreement did it include weekly visits? I agree that setting regular times would be good as long as it is not a huge change from your original agreement. Each situation is so unique and it is difficult to give advice without being one of the parties involved. One aspect of your post that I agree with 100% is not allowing bmom to bring her latest bf with her to visits. We are in a similar situation and my biggest concern with that was not knowing the bf and his family, friends, etc. She has had many in the last 4 years and we are glad that we made that decision. God Bless and keep us posted!

Colleen