[icunurse]

I think since you have already built a relationship with C, you owe it to her to be honest and respect her decision on the matter, whatever it may be. Some bparents place with the intention of their child being the only child, first child, etc or some may simply want their child to be the center of your universe for a while and not have to share time with mommy and daddy right off the bat. That's one reason a lot of people frown upon "artificial twinning" and why many agencies have a waiting period before you can start the adoption process again. Whatever you decide, be honest about it with C and honor your committment to her. Good luck!