[aspenhall]

I think it was something to the effect of ..."Heavenly Father gets to decide who gets kids and how many and I guess He wanted Lydia to have 4...Just like He wanted you to live with Sarah first and then us now." She still thought it was pretty unfair that Lydia got 4 and some don't have any babies. She's already pushing for US to get a baby and we haven't even finalized yet!!

I also added something about only the most special kids get to have "2 families" (our words for adoption)...not just everybody. And she responded with, "...special like me huh mom?..." I also point out others with 2 families as we come across them... superman...etc..