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How many APs children had/have problems?
Sometimes some APs scare me that I should walk away from IA unless I am prepared to deal with severe problems in PI children.
However, my agency said that while we should view these children as special needs it is in varying degrees and that only about ten percent would have special needs that would take a toll on our family.
Which is the realistic picture?
Having been on this board for nearly a year now it seems that the majority of the APs have had a fairly smooth bonding process. And that most of the children are happy and healthy. Am I right? How has it been for you since you were home? How has your experience compared to all the things you worried about before you brought your child/ren home?
If I'd dwelled on everything that could go wrong I probably would never have had my bio son. So I'd like to get some perspective from those in the trenches.
MustangLippy
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