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My hubby and I ( both CC) Have adopted 1 of of his sisters children ( from birth) and are in the process of adopting another baby from the same woman. The 2nd baby ,Elijah is biracial. His birth father is AA. I told my family flat out and in no uncertain terms ..." If you treat Elijah any differently that you do the other kids, We will leave and you will never see any of the kids at all"
I really didn't need to, because my parents adore Elijah ( almost 2 months old) But I was upfront and I meant every word I said.
Family adoptions can be a little shaky, but they can work. Ours does. You are absolutely right when you say that all that matters is the baby. Do what your heart tells you....
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When there is room in the heart, there is room in the home.
Lana
Mommy to
*Sarah 7/88*
*Joshua (6/25/89-1/21/90)*
*Daniel 4/90*
*Jordan 9/91*
*Timothy 4/93*
*Paul 1/14/00
Finalized 11/15/2001*
*Elijah Mark 6/16/05
Finalized 11/22/05*
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