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I say give it some time. We got my 3yr old fs at 15months. He did not like to be kissed, huged, had no eye contact and when you held him he would not cuddle. He was moved a lot on his first year of life. He has lived with b-mom, b-grandma, friend, back with b-mom, b-father, b-aunt, back with b-mom, recieving home, then in our home. It took a year for him to really bond. After about 5 months he would let us start hugging him. Then a couple months past he would let us kiss him. Then about a year he started having eye contact. Now he loves to be hugged, kissed and loves to hug back and kiss back. He gets very upset when my dh leaves to work and he forgets to kiss and hug J good bye.
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