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AngelsMommy,
Well, my hubby and I are cc, our daughter is cc, our first adopted son is hisp, and our youngest (we're in the process of trying to adopt) son is biracial (cc/aa). The youngest child is my cousin.
The only advice I can think of right now, is please, be prepared for what "may" happen, should you adopt this child. If the grandmother decides she's not going to have anything to do with this child, you'll need to know how you're going to handle this. How would you handle this with your other children if grandma wanted to see them, but not this baby? Would you be able to walk away from your family, should they "draw that line in the sand?
Now, I'm not trying to scare you, but I just want you to be mentally prepared for anything. I'm not trying to stop you or talk you out of this by any means, just trying to let you think of other scenarios, just in case.
I'll keep you and your family in my prayers. (Oh, I'll keep trying to think about this over the night and see what else I can think of.)
Mom2J
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