[timni]

Thanks so much Brandy I think you are right. I will have to do some side stepping when it comes to her pain with the adoption. I really want her to talk to a professional and I will keep it available for her.

I think it is harder b/c I know the pain of loss and she doesn't yet. I guess it is that protective instinct in me rearing its head. I sometimes think this might have been easier if I didn't know E before the pregnancy. And yet I think we could have a great situation later down the road because of our friendship