Hi Maralee. I am a birthmother who had a closed adoption but I was able to choose the adoptive parents through anonymous profiles and learn about them through my social worker. I never met them, didn't want to, but like hopefulinpa said, you'll know when it's right. I just wanted to say that you sound like you've really got it together and I'm sure you'll work out the perfect plan for your baby. Just remember, you're running the show. Listen to you gut and be strong.
Take care.
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