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Sometimes being in the present means grieving...
And sometimes grieving means starting over with the pain.
Grief, being so cyclic does not necessarily cycle until depletion, but just gives you the pain, anger, sadness, acceptance, etc over and over.
There is moving on, putting behind you, and there is healing. Sometimes they are the same.
Don't beat yourself up over not having forgiveness for the liars. Who is the Master of Lies anyway? Hrmmmm.
Forgive them for being misled into their lies, but you can still be angry as heck that you were lied to.
Betrayal of your trust & naivete (or coercion, etc) is betrayal. This is hard to get over.
Maia
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Get all the fools on your side and you can be elected to anything.
—Frank Dane.
I was born to shiver in the draft of an open mind.
—Samson Shillitoe, in Elliott Baker's A Fine Madness.
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