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I know it sounds drastic from anytime to 4 times a year--Last year we had a talk about her boyfriends and the time that she spends with them compared to the time with Nicholas--I explained that this arrangement was not for her or me but for Nicholas. I think you are probably right about her trying to find a guy to rescue her. She wants someone to help her get her other 2 children(boys--3 & 4 years old.)back even though she does not have parental rights. She is immature--She is 22 years old and there is alot of details of her life I won't go into. As to banning her boyfriends so that she would understand that Nicholas should come before them is not the reason for me not letting her bring them to see Nicholas-- Nicholas is a little boy-He needs love and respect from everyone--even his birthmom--he is not something to show off when you want to prove a point and that is what happens with her--She tells the guys about Nicholas and the open adoption and then she wants to show off. This is from the conversations that we have when she is at the first of her relationships. I am hoping that she will grow up and mature before Nicholas is older-- I will try the talk with her again and then we'll see how it goes. Thanks
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