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Re: rejection by adoptive parents
Originally Posted By Deb
Oh, you poor thing, I feel terrible for you ... BUT look at it this way. If that family did not really want or feel capable of handling twins for whatever reason, then you would not want them raising your babies anyway. You want your children to be loved and nurtured unconditionally - regardless of sex, number etc. (you'd be surprised how many people back out of adoptions after finding out the sex of the baby).
Don't be discouraged and hang in there. If you are not ready to raise the babies for yourself, then keep looking until you find the perfect parents. I also encourage all families to consider an open adoption which will help you with your sense of loss, will help the child latter and will hopefully build a lifelong family relationship between you and the adoptive family. My sons birthfamily is part of our extended family now and I know they feel the same way.
Best wishes,
deb
debokane703@aol.com
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