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Hey.. congrats.. this will be good "practice" if it does not happen.. but hopefully it will. 1st.. figure out what state she is in and find out thier laws (if you let me know that state I can look it up)..
Then talk to her about those laws and keep suggesting she talk to someone, but don;t push some people want it som do not.. Offer to help pay for it if needed most states allow us to pay for this.
Offer her the chance to talk on the phone and ask her if she is comfortable answering more questions or if she would prefer that go thru an attorney.. We also sent an email with a buch of those questions.
That is a good place to start.. we did an independant adoption and went theru several possible matches prior to that so I am more than happy to tell you more about what we did.. (she was 2000 miles away).
mandy
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