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Originally Posted By dadezgrl1024

I have spent the last 4 weeks emailing back and forth and talking on the phone with a family about adopting my baby. They expressed a desire to be committed to me, and I to them, and I agreed. All was well and there was a great deal of trust there. Then I went to the doctor and found that I am having twins. Now the Adoptive father doesn't want to adopt them. I feel angry, rejected, let down, disappointed, etc, and fed up with the whole process. I can't deal with developing anymore emotional connections and being let down again. I guess this is one of those cases where I am forced to deal with the consequences of my own stupidity. I just wish that I had decided not to do this from the beginning. Now I feel trapped. Can someone help me?