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we do adoption day
and did have small parties when adoptions were finalized.....adoption day is never very big, but it is something like going to the movies or renting one and staying up past bed time if a school night and saying once again I'm so happy you are my child....
a cake and close relatives over would be good, or going out to eat....if you have been through the ringer like we were with foster care then adoption you'd be a celebrating big time....I even sent the kids foster care worker flowers on the day...it was such a relief to have it over...if you go to court, which you do in Missouri it will be good for the kid to go for the last time (doesn't Missouri have kids at some of the foster care cases????/ my son knew the place pretty well when we went to court and it was tough on him because he thought his b-mom or grandparents would be there....in Va kids really never go to court)
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