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In our case, we knew very little about our daughter until we were chosen. We were told her age, and some disorders - RAD, PTSD. We didn't even know her real name until after we were chosen. Then we were given a little more info (very little actually) and we talked with her foster family and her therapist. Her worker received over 100 homestudies for her. She picked her top 3. Therefore if we had said no at any time, she could have moved on to the next.
Like missw, we were chosen second a few times. We were told that there was a possibilty that the chosen family would turn down the placement as they learned more abut the child, but that never happened.
The info given to you is very scant prior to you being chosen due to privacy.
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