I found out from our Agency when my son was 6 months old that his birthmom was pregnant. We didn't want to adopt any more children but we also didn't want the kids to be apart. But we decided that we wouldn't adopt again if she choose to do the adoption plan. Long story. She got married and has a 4 month old son..
It's nice that she has a close relationship with you and asked if you knew a family. Atleast the kids can grow up together with one of your friends if she chooses to place. Best of luck to her..
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