[Jmuckey]

We are on pins and needles. Last week, we met our Birth mother and found that our baby would be due July 8. This very strong, beautiful girl had made this adoption plan with our agency and made it loud and clear that she did not want to parent. It was reassured that the birth father would agree and sign relinquishments. The very next day he filed paternity. She is due anytime know and most likely be forced to parent. He has no job, no where to live, and it has been said that he is doing this out of spite. In our state he has 30 days to follow through with the courts after he files. He said that he might want to meet us...We feel he is going to drag this on for the 30 days and do anything possible to hurt the birth mom. She is not agreeing to put the baby into newborn care until a decision has been made on his part. We can't risk taking the baby home to have him take him back. Just seeking advice and support. PM me if you want and I can be more specific.