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I am an adoptive mom and am so very sorry for all of your pain and what they are putting you through. Not only are they hurting you, they are depriving her of her brother and sister. What they are doing isn't right. I have always felt that honesty is the best measure, so I really feel that you may need to tell them exactly how you are feeling. They may be oblivious to the way that you are feeling and not doing this intentionally... some people just get so involved with thier own lives and get so self absorbed that they don't give others a thought. I truly hope that this is the case. I can understand that they may be a little frightened, but the adoption is final.... They should focus on what is important any way... your daughter.... what is best for her???... They should cast their fears aside and do what is right by her.... let her have the relationship with you and her brother and sister that they promised 4 years ago... Please keep us posted... You are and willl continue to be in my thoughts and prayers! Love and Hugs!!! ... Kara
P.S. Congrats on your new husband and baby boy! May you have MANY years of happiness!
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