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Different states have different laws, so you'll have to find out what the specific ones are in your state. Generally though, 2 years without contact is long enough to prove abandonment, and your children are all old enough to speak up to a judge and tell him it's what they want. I know money is tight, but since it's pretty obvious that your ex will fight this, you'll probably want a lawyer. My husband and I had to save money for a couple of years before we could do the adoption. The waiting was tough but it was worth it. Also if you have family that would like to see this go through they might chip in a little.
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