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Old 06-14-2005, 10:11 AM
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replying to failed adoption

After reading your post my heart goes out to you.We were so blessed to meet the birthmom of our precious angel.We now have a beautiful baby 2 months old now.Like you,we were present for all the doctor's appointments and even the delivery.The birthmom was wonderful and she will forever hold such a part of our hearts.We thank God everyday that our paths crossed.But, now the possible biological father wants the baby if its his.As you know this will literally break our hearts...this guy knew the plans of adoption,and did nothing.Now we are just waiting for him to be served.We all go into adoption knowing there are always risk.But we always felt that taking that risk is something we would always do in order to hopefully one day get to adopt a baby.The birthmom and us still communicate and we have become good friends.The birthmom wants the baby to remain with us,but we know that its not all in what the birthmom wants.The hardest part is this baby has been with us for 2 months now.We pray to God everyday that this baby will remain with us.We love this baby like our very own,and I cannot even imagine waking up one day ....and the baby is not there.Crying is something now that comes naturally...I get chocked up even talking about our situation.It is extremely painful.I just try and keep one thing in my mind...we were there when this baby needed us...and that is all we can do.We cherish everyday we get to spend time with this baby...because we just do not know what the ending will be.We keep praying and feel God has a plan for everyone...we just hope God's plan is for this baby to stay with us.May God Bless You and I hope you find some peace...
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