I think I have been scared every time I have got my license expanded. I think it's only natural, you never know what your going to get. ( in terms of behavior, you know your getting a child...lol) Anyways, I have the same advise to you as I'd have to a bio mom, If your having another child because you feel your 1st one needs a playmate, DON"T. If your having, another child because you WANT another child then i'd say go for it. But remember, if she's a handful now
she will get worse when you bring another child into your home.
Maybe for only awhile, but it will happen.
So before you make your desion, think about why you are doing it
, for a playmate or to have another child. I have 2 bio kids 10 & 11 and I started out with 1 fd, then I got a boy, all was good until I got 2 more boy's, my fs was very upset.
But, i'm in fostercare to help kids, I love it, and Yes sometimes there a handful, but like it was said before have lots of structure.
Good luck and let us know whjat you deside and how it goes.
Married 12 years
bio mom of 2
foster mom of 4
