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Well, I'd say to initiate legal proceedings on the child support and let him "flee the jurisdiction". When he can't be found and won't accept service of process on anything - file the petition for the adoption.
Check in our state to see what it says about notice. Many state only require that the bio-father be given notice of a pending adoption and if he decides not to respond, the adoption can move on without his consent.
Besides, if you try to pin him down to pay child support and he runs - that doesn't make him look like a very good father, does it. The Judge will probably take a look at that in determining what's best for the child.
Tim
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