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kk,
I did speak with the bmom about a week after I had returned home, but our situation was completely different so it was the right thing to do for closure on both ends. She felt horrible about dragging me to Chicago for that week and then changing her mind. Logically she knew she wouldn't do that to someone, but once her heart took over during those 72 hours we had to wait for her signature logic was out the door. And I needed her to know that I didn't have any bad feelings towards her for the change of heart. We did talk about the baby too which was hard, but good at the same time.
I am glad you didn't send the letter you wrote. Consider it cheap therapy for yourself! Doesn't sound like your situation requires any response. Might even consider changing your email so she can't reach you any longer.
Good luck in receiving that precious bundle soon! I know it's hard to wait, but you'll be happy you did.
Janet
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