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Jenna
I too am a birthmom and I have other children and can understand not talking about it as much, I guess you could say. At first I think it was more open but now its the looks and stares as if they are questioning it. Or maybe they just dont know what to say. I think it is easier to some extent for aparents to be a little more open as they are more look on as savoirs by others as bmoms are look as what went so wrong you had to do this although they smile at you and say thats great, It was the right thing to do etc. I have learn why bmoms dont talk about it much and etc. compare to aparents. Now I dont at all instead of saying I have 4 children I always have to say 3 to avoid the extra min long stare or question in their eyes. Yeah its easy to say just say it but, its not always that simple or easy. I just want you to know you are not alone in that area.
misery
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