Before my hubby and I married we talked about adoption. I had always wanted to adopt a child from foster care because growing up I knew other kids who grew up in foster care who had moved from home to home and I knew as an adult I wanted to give a child a permanant home. We decided that we would do this after we gave birth to a few children.
Well once we decided to try getting pregnant we ran into some problems. I did not really want to do fertility treatments but we tried a few rounds of clomid and then moved towards some injectables. We did the injectables for two nights and one the third night I was in my bathroom preparing for my injection and I just said "I want to be a mother more than I want to be pregnant". It was that simple to me.
My hubby agreed that he didnt want us to continue withe the treatments (I had all kinds of mood swings etc) and I had already said injectables were as far as i would go because personally I did not want to continue on to any things invasive. We did research and larter came to the decision together as a couple. It has proven to be wonderful! And we know that our son was meant to be our son without a shadow of a doubt!
