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Um I will not advise you to cut off contact, however, I definately advise you to
1. Get an intermediary to handle the contact (such as the atty that handled the paperwork) or if the bgrandfather is a standup fellow, consider him.
2. Insist that all contact go through said intermediary.
3. Issue one statement that anything construed as harassment or threats (even threats of contestation) will result in a Court Order of Protection against them. They will not be allowed to contact you personally at risk of violating this order, and therefore risking jail/ imprisonment.
4. Change your number.
That is my advice as a birth mother and as a parent.
Good luck
Maia
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