[WaitingforJacob]

Thanks for all the wonderful reply's!! I especially like the chocolate idea.

I'll go back and look at the instruction I've gotten, but what your saying sounds right, that gifts shouldn't be given to the birthmom.

Our case is a little unique as we are adopting an older child who is currently living in a Group Home and not with a foster parent. He lived with his family up until last November. Candy has been recommended for the nannies, so I will focus on chocoate.

I have the same question as Audrey's Mom, how much is appropriate? It's been suggested that we tip the attorney's son who will escort us to the zoo, but how much???