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Old 04-28-2005, 10:07 PM
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I think it sounds like a really nice card. You might add some really upbeat stuff about how happy the kids are. It sounds like it would come across as callous, but it seems to make previous parents feel better, such as, knowing my first foster daughter's forever placement is a good happy one for her makes me feel very comfortable with having lost her myself. And my newly returned fdaughter's bgrandma (who just lost her to me as an adoptive placement) told me on the phone a few days ago, that hearing how happy the child is makes her feel much better about losing her herself.
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