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(((((Shycar)))))
I know how you feel. My fs left 9 weeks ago and I still have days when all I do is miss him. We're human and we fall in love with these kids regardless of what our head tells us to do.
Take a break from foster care and grieve. It hurts like crazy, but not forever. Pray for your little guy. Remember that God is with him wherever he goes. It has given me comfort to know that the time I had with my little one is ours, and ours alone--nobody can take that time we had together away from us. There are little things we have imparted into the spirits of these children that help mold them into the people they become, so they leave taking some of us with them! That comforts me too.
Be kind to yourself and love on the rest of your family. Cuddling with your other children is very therapeutic. I'll be lifting you and your little one up in prayer. RM
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Married since 1984
Bio Parents to 16 yo dd, 14 yo ds
Foster/Adopt Parents to 3 yo dd
Foster Parents to drug-exposed newborns
God is GOOD, ALL the time!
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