[waxhawfamily]

I understand this as a concern. Personally, I had these thoughts myself, and really had to take a step of faith to proceed.

The reality is that if you don't "click", you don't have to sign the letter of intent to proceed in adopting that child. However, what happens next may be somewhat unpredictable. Some are able to see other children, some are not. Sometimes it depends on the agency, or the region, or the individual you are dealing with. Your best bet is to speak with your agency about your region on what the "trend" is. Trends are about as committed as our agency will get in discussing hypotheticals (spelling??).