[aamommy]

Isn't that the worst when you are all wound up and your DH is calm as can be???? That's been my situation ever since we started the adoption process!! How can my DH be so calm about this stuff????? Seriously, the homestudy was nowhere near as bad as I expected .... our social worker was REALLY nice and we basically just chatted most of the time. She gave us lots of advice about bonding and issues when the baby comes home and we also spent some time just talking about cats!! It was a lot more like just sitting down and chatting with a friend than the interrogation that I was expecting!! Good luck to you!!!