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Hi there.
Everybody is nervous the first time. But once it starts, it really is more fun than you think it will be. You learn a lot about yourself and your DH. You think it is going to be someone coming in to grill you on weather you will be a fit parent or not. If your house is perfect. But it really is not that way at all! We have had 2 homestudies and have enjoyed both of them. You get to talk all about how excited you are to add to your family, how great your life is, what all your parenting ideas are. the case worker just listens because she is interested in your ideas and needs to get to know you so she can write a report about your loving house! ( and it is her job) It is also much more casual than I thought it would be. It feels like sitting down for a cup of coffee with a new friend as you get to know each other.
I know everyone says this, but the best thing you can do is relax and be yourself. good luck MoMo
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