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When we did our first adoption we had all 3 of our boys in their own rooms. We just told sw that we were going to put 2 together in the biggest room and baby would have the emptied one. It is true what others have said about the home visit, I cleaned like a mad woman, and the sw didn't even open closet doors. :-) (kind of annoyed me as closets had never been cleaner, and haven't been as clean since.)
As far as paperchasing, there is a particular agency that will assemble you dossier for, what I consider, to be a nominal fee. If you don't know which agency I am speaking of, pm me and I will tell you. One of the reasons we didn't adopt from China the first time (there were others as well)was the paperwork seemed just too overwhelming. I also believe we are meant to find our child and it turned out ours was in Korea. We/I too am looking at adopting again, but as this is the second go around and we have a little more knowledge about the adoption process, it doesn' feel as overwhelming. Good luck to you. Take a deep breath and take it one day at a time. To get from point A to Z you have to take a step at a time. Shelley
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