I just read your second post, Mary, so I thought I'd add--about the bedroom situation, support system, etc.
Don't worry about those things. The social worker will just want to know that you have a workable plan. Explain your plan for the bedrooms, and if the SW asks about your support system have a plan for how you will develop a support system (do you plan on attending Families with Children from China meetings, joining a church, looking for playgroups, getting to know your neighbors better over time, and so on).
The SW just wants to know that you've thought about these things.
