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Well the child is not legally yours until court is over, so at no time do you have to accept this as your child just because you've accepted the referral.
In most cases you won't have a chance to 'click' with other children because most probably you'll only get to interact with your referred child.
As for, your question......if you decide this isn't the child for you once there, can you get another referral.......well that depends on the agency. I know that with my agency, if you travel and the child doesn't work out (although it is usually only because of medical reasons) they will try their best to find you another referral on the spot. In fact I met a family this happened to. They traveled to Moscow city, the baby obviously had health issues not picked up on referral video/pics, and the agency found them another baby while they were still there.
Good luck to you!
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