Thanks, Sandy! I have a sneaking suspicion that this could be a honeymoon thing, too, especially since the girls were kept pretty busy AND they only see their younger sister once a month. Maybe all of the excitement kept them civil. ?
I'm also concerned (cautiously optimistic) about the middle girl's (6 next month) "former" RAD diagnosis. Last year in preschool she was very aggressive, even throwing chairs! But this year in kindergarten (new school and with a teacher who gives her choices), the aggressive behavior has stopped and her therapist changed her diagnosis to Anxiety Disorder. If attachment behaviors resurface with us, we'll drive those 3 hours to the attachment therapist!
