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The most frustrating part is that they're no longer working on reunification. And biomom isn't even regular with the parenting classes. But none the less the parenting classes do occur.
T's cwer doesn't ahve voice mail, so yesterday when I tried to call had no one there. I know the fecal smearing is something that's resulting from the parenting classes as she was fine before she started going to them. And yesterday when she returned she was a little monster. Plus she's gone all day and there's not nap time at parenting classes. Isn't that insane that a 23 month old doesn't get to nap all day. She's just so over tired by the time she gets back. And every overtired child I've known is monsterous, even my 2 sons.
I'm going to have to ask about the sexual abuse, as T is always trying to play with her private parts and when she hugs me tries to bite my boobs (not very pleasant). There was definately domestic violence as she can get very angry and YELL a lot. For example, one day Om was in time-out. Well she went up to him, yelled at him and then hit him. Well, Om being the boy he is just broke down in tears (we don't spank here so he was really shocked that someone spanked him). His feeling were so hurt and then I had to figure out what to do about it. So I decided T had to spend 2 minutes in her crib. She didn't even mind it. But I had to remove her from the situation.
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 Adoptive Mommy
To 3 Busy Boys
 6 years old
 6 years old
 3 years old
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