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If your true intent is to be respectful of the birthmother, then you should talk to her about it and she how she feels.
Keep in mind; you aren’t limited to one first name, one middle name and one last name…having said that…maybe there is a combination of both his birth name and the name that you have chosen, that you can all agree on.
My son has two middle names, simple because I was indecisive about which one I liked better…
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Brandy
Adopted Adult, Mom & Wife
Mothering From The Sidelines of Open Adoption
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