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Both Leigh and Deanna and Alex are right. Why bother wasting your breath on such narrow-mindedness and ignorance? You did not let your son down. My boss said to me at the time we were going through a horrible legal battle with our first son's adoption and I was about to invoke FMLA, well, it's not like it'll ever be your child, why are you doing this to me? And, my wife and I also had things said to us from the DFS Social workers like..."someday when they want to meet their real parents...." and "I'm sure you feel like they're your real children...." Yes, these are direct quotes from the "professionals" in the system. So, ignorance is everywhere, and if you let it eat at you, it'll only end up destroying you, and it is not worth it. Again, you did not let your son down. Blood may be thicker than water, but love, is thicker than anything. Keep that in your heart, and let the ignorance roll off you like water from a duck.
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