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Based on his current drug usage, I'd be very leery of signing anything or even agreeing to anything. Would you feel comfortable now saying you'd send pics & updates but anything beyond that will have to be considered in time?
My feeling is just that he not be made any promises you won't keep, and that you do what you are comfortable with and in the best interest of your fd. The CW shouldn't be encouraging an open adoption agreement just to sway him to sign...that's basically my concern when I talked about dad's rights, kwim?
You do have to protect her and do what's best for her. I think based on the uncertainity of things, no promises should be made beyond what you are completely comfortable with.
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