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almost identical situation
Nursie,
let me tell you we are in an almost identical situation. Our FS bmom signed surrenders she was going back to prision. All she requested was one current picture. I gave her like 25 that was almost a year ago and she has never ever contacted DCF again. She now has no legal rights to him anyways. The Bdad now on the other had fought for custody and has always made things very difficult for the children, We were called many of many names and he wanted to co-parent. Rights were terminated and he of course appealed. Well he contacted DCF and said he will drop the appeal if he can recieve a couple of pictures and send money. It was agreed upon that everything go through DCF and that be it. Well he hasn't held up on any part of his end of it so we were told not to send pictures until he does so.
MY OPINION: Do NOT give or promise UNSUPERVISED visitation to a parent that may loose parental rights. I maybe would agree to a public place with you present. But NEVER Unsupervised visitation.. There is a reason this child is not with this parent as it is. Even if he is the non offending parent why is it this child is still with you. There is some reason the department didn't give him custody. Sounds to me he is very similar to our fs biodad.
Good luck and remember YOU have to PROTECT your Child. NO ONE ELSE WILL.
Jody
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