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I'm jumping on the bandwagon with McKenna on this one. I don't think unsupervised visits with bdad are a good idea, especially through the fc system.
All my children are adopted through DCS which does not have open adoptions. I have, however, maintained contact with the bmom of 6 of my children. She calls, we exchange letters, I send pictures...all of that a couple of times a month. As much as I care about her, and as close as we are, I don't allow any kind of visits (she's never asked BTW) and would never even entertain the idea of an overnight visit! They were removed from her for a reason.
Think long and hard on this one, Nursie. Maybe you could agree to meet at the park or McD's once a month along with phone calls, emails, and pics, but not overnight visits.
JMO
Good luck,
Jill
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