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It sounds like you have made a careful, informed decision. Good for you for doing the research, being honest with yourselves, and recognizing your expectations and limitations. That is the best thing to do for these children.
I do believe that there is a family for these children out there somewhere. I will say a prayer for them tonight. It was very sad to read the oldest child's heartbreaking statements about her situation--that her biomom can't care for them, and that adoptive parents won't keep them because of their behavior. There is a world of hurt and hard-won insight in those statements. But somewhere, there is an experienced, therapeutic home that will be able to help these children heal.
I have followed your posts, and I know how much time and effort and research you have dedicated to this. Take care of yourselves. It's hard to come to this kind of decision, I know.
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