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OK first of all NO we have no openness. The courts have terminated my kids birthparents rights. It is court ordered NO CONTACT until they are 18. I am in contact with one of the kids biological aunts and I am sure she passes info onto the birth mom. I maintain this contact because the kids like to hear from her and she was the only family member that ever contacted them while they were in foster care. My kids know if they ever want to find their mom they will NOT have to search because the aunt keeps me informed as to where she is. She is even living with the aunt right now. Let me say I do not spend alot of time worrying about this. It is a fear but I do NOT dwell on it. My kids know we will help them find their biological mom and dads if they wish. They know they may not like what they find as well. Their mom may also be in jail by then as she was just arrested on a narcotics charge again. They know their Bmom LOVED/LOVES them she just could not give them the kind of life a child needs. No one knows where the Bdads are and right now the kids do not seem to care. Two of them say they do not want to EVER find Bmom and one says she will when she is 18, (right now).
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