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Hi
I can empathize with what you are feeling. I searched for many, many years. But it did happen! I have been reunited for a few years and realize now that everything happens when it is supposed to.
I am still looking for my bdad. I have very little to go on so the search is very frustrating and I have had to face the fact that I may never find the answers.
But I agree. Never give up. It is important to take breaks here and there. It can become an obsession at times, I know.
But that is exhausting. I find that if I take a rest for a while things crop up and send me in a new direction that I was just too tired to notice before.
I know I have felt too that it would be so easy for my bdad to type in info. and find me. But there are many reasons for him not doing so. Some people still do not know that they CAN search. Others don't know where to begin and some are not computer literate. (Yes, even now.) Some have buried their emotions so deeply and kidded themselves that they never need to think about it. And others are just plain afraid.
Best wishes to you in your search. Someday it will happen.
Hugs
Snuffie
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