We adopted through fc....so sorry to hijack your board, but we have bio-sons (13) and (9) and an adopted daughter (2) and son (10 months). I have to say 14 months apart has been easier than 4 years apart. Most people think I'm crazy.....I just turned 41, but am healthy and active. It's the logistics that drive me crazy...like who to get out of the car first and where to put the carseats and how to get them in the shopping cart. But it's so fun to watch them together and has been a huge blessing for us and hopefully they will be for each other as well. I hope all your dreams come true
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