I have two bio sons, Jack 4 1/2 and Ben 3 next month. We are adopting our daughter Isabella who turned 3 in January. We plan on just
making time for all three of them.(probably easier said than done some days) We didn't know how we were going to do it from one to two but it just fit. I have learned from other mothers who have more than two children that you naturally adjust. Ofcourse there will be times when one child gets more attention than the others. My oldest son
requires more attention than my youngest and some times we have to make it a point to pay more attention to the younger!
I guess what I am trying to say is that if this is something that you and your husband feel strongly about then you should follow through. The only people that can make sure that they have enough time and attention is you guys. Many people have more than two children and they make it work. I think it is more relative to what you and your husband feel you can handle well as parents.
Good luck with your decision and may your journey be smooth should you decide to go forward!
